How is our attitude?

When I am at my friend Lisa's house, I am most often happy cheerful, sweet with the kids, have a long attention span, am patient with everyone, and everything I should be.  But then  I go home.   Is my attitude the same?  At first, yes.  But then my brother will do something to bother me, or I will get short with my mom.

Something I have been pondering on is that, and my attitude everywhere I go.  I am trying to work on having the right and positive attitudes at home, not just when I'm with a friend.  

How about you?  Do you have similar scenarios in your life?  We should all take upon the challenge of looking at each of our relationships, and how our attitude is when we are with each person, how it changes one from another sometimes.  We need to evaluate WHY that is, and come up with a way to stop it.  

James 1:8 - "A double minded man is unstable in all his ways."